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This
work brings to light what entangles us in the destinies of other family
members and what is caused by this entanglement.
It becomes clear, that we identify ourselves with the destinies of
excluded, forgotten and not honored family members, or those lost
due to early death or abortion, without consciously knowing.
As a result we see heavy destinies, illness or unhappy relationships
in our own lives and in the lives of our descendents.
However the phrase family constellation is misleading; the method
is working in all facets of life. At work (constellation of the organization),
with illness, conflicts within relationships, questions with regards
to raising children, questions concerning religion and nationality,
decision-making processes, problems of daily life and…
Technique: Representatives are chosen from the group
and initially placed in certain positions. The representatives do
not know who or what they represent. They are completely neutral and
can sense feelings free of values. They move around according to their
own impulses and without words. Only the client is told who represents
who. The client is also represented. A movie unfolds itself in front
of every ones' eyes, a silent movie.
When all have chosen a position work can start. There is no explanation
why the representatives have the emotions and physical symptoms of
the original people, as soon as they have been placed.
Solution: The entanglements can be solved by placing
the right order, by adjusting give and take and by acknowledging connections.
The excluded member is honored, so that respect and love - and no
longer the client - balance the done injustice. Later the client can
replace the representative to feel for him/herself the untangling
order.
A new inner picture is created: The relationships
between the people are brought to a clear level and ways are found,
which bring about healing of the own life and the whole system.
The client goes home with a solving picture. This picture continues
its work in the soul and has a healing effect on the whole system.
Energies, locked at wrong places, can now be released so that the
client can live his/her life in a responsible manner.
Client: He does the constellation because he/she
wants to shed light on something.
Participating observer: He/she observes. Or he/she
works for others as representative and can feel the emotions. They
are not his/her own.
It happens that important solutions can be found without having to
do an own constellation. The work of a single person often advances
all participants.
Individual work: Helping aids are used instead of
the representatives: Sheets of paper, chairs or shoes. The client
does the representing work alone by placing him/herself on each sheet
of paper and sensing the emotions.
Work of the therapist: I know nothing beforehand.
All is shown while we work.
What does the client want, what touches him/her? Observing his/her
reaction and the reaction of the representatives makes me see the
urgency, the possibilities and the solution.
We work in a protected environment. All participants promise to be
silent about the work of the others. If requested we can work without
words.
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